“Love MemorialsTM ” are very personalized sympathy gifts given to comfort bereaved families grieving the death of a baby passed. This gift comes straight from the heart without the possibility of ever being repeated. A “Love MemorialsTM ” can be sent immediately after the death, on death anniversaries, angelversaries, birthdays, the season, approximate pregnancy due dates or holidays. There is no timeline for a gift honoring a baby very much missed.
At least three people are involved in the creation of a “Love MemorialsTM ”; the person grieving, the deceased child and you. There are no rules to compose a “Love MemorialsTM ”, only the depth of thought for its conception. When you take the time to understand the relationship of the bereaved individual and loved one passed, a precious and unique keepsake can be composed.
“Love MemorialsTM ” can be a simple handmade card or pregnancy loss ribbons , poems , journal entries, or scrapbook pages. Other forms of “Love MemorialsTM ” are virtual memorials, memory gardens and drawings.
A handmade card is a wonderful and considerate way to send a heartfelt “Love MemorialTM ”. The card located above was created for a couple who lost their daughter Abby at 22 weeks gestation due to miscarriage. The photograph of a golden sunrise, the yellow butterfly and lemony cloud the angel is resting on, symbolizes the gemstone citrine. Abby’s approximate due date was December second, providing the information needed to help create a card reflecting the color of her gemstone. Every child has a zodiac sign, symbol and gemstone . The flower and butterfly stickers and angel baby on the cloud are included in the Just a Cloud Away Remembrance Kit for pregnancy and infant loss.
If you have a talent for writing, compose a “Love MemorialTM ” in the form of a letter or poem. This type of gift would be highly treasured because of the amount of thought required for its creation. My girlfriend created a “Love Memorial™” for us after the stillbirth of our son Tanner. The poem is called, “If he could tell you…” and was read at our Memory Garden Dedication for Tanner. My girlfriend was also a new mother of a 3 month old when she composed this comforting poem that touched my heart. Her words also reflected a very real pain for her too.
If you are creative and have either an organic or symmetrical style, try designing a “Love MemorialTM ” in the form of scrapbook pages . This “Love MemorialTM ” created from your perspective could comfort bereaved families while providing a memorial keepsake reflecting hope. My sister-in-law created a beautiful “Love MemorialTM ” for us honoring little Tanner. One could even create scrapbook pages from the perspective of child in heaven, reassuring the bereaved that they are doing just fine and love them deeply.
Decoupage is another medium to use when creating “Love MemorialsTM ”. Decoupage usually comes in a plastic container and has a consistency of glue. I created a “Love MemorialTM ” honoring my stillborn son and deceased Uncle. 2 years after my son was stillborn my dear uncle was diagnosed with cancer. He fought a tough battle until the end. Before he passed, with his eyes closed, holding my hand whispered, “I am going to teach Tanner how to fish”. I am crying even now while typing. This “Love MemorialTM ” was created and memorialized on a decorative plate and charger plate to place in Tanner’s shadowbox.
Virtual memorials are another way to express your support for bereaved families. By working through the logistics and set up of an online memorial, unnecessary stress for grieving family members are alleviated. These “Love MemorialsTM ” allow you to write short stories, poems or anything else about the deceased or those grieving the loss. Memorials can be personalized by background colors, music, and significant photos, making this online tribute unique.
Typical sympathy gifts usually involve you and the individual grieving the loss, such as a sympathy card. Sending such gifts would be fine if it is distressing or uncomfortable to send a “Love MemorialTM ”. After some time passes, ideas and thoughts may be discovered helping to compose a “Love MemorialTM ” for your bereaved friend or family member. These types of sympathy gifts will be truly cherished because you haven taken time to think about their special relationship with their deceased infant and the undying love within their hearts.