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Imagine For A Second That A Young Couple So Deep In Love

Imagine for a second that a young couple so deep in love that they can’t see beyond each other’s eyes, plan out not only a pending wedding but as well what will be a blueprint for the rest of their lives together.

Next imagine that for one night all is forgotten. It’s funny how your world can turn upside down in an instant either for good or the bad. The ironic thing is that she wound up doing both to me. Now I have some simple philosophies about relationships and one of them just seems to be about trust.

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“I will always trust you until you give me a reason not to.” She said that there was going to be a girl’s nite out at a local club and I told her I was fine with it because she needed it (We were both going through some stress at the time). After finding out that she had already decided not to come back till around 3 in the morning, I decided to make plans for myself so as I wouldn’t be left alone all night. I went to the other side of town to hang out with my best friend whom I haven’t seen for a long while. I planned everything out perfectly so that I would be at home right around 3 about the same time as her. Well as the night progressed I was starting to get a little dependant on her call. I was waiting to hear how here night was going or for her to as how my night was going…… no call at all.

Right around 2 I decided to call her it was no surprise that she was totally wasted but thanks to her friend from work she was able to get home safely. I rushed to get back home but was only able to make it by 3 like I had intended. As I entered our apartment I found her boots lying in the living room and also found her sound asleep in the room. Now here is the part where I do admit that I could be wrong. As I was setting up to go to sleep as well, I checked her phone and her text messages only to find that she had sent various messages to someone named Anna. By my own knowledge Anna is a female name but these messages weren’t made out on that fact. It seemed that she was sending messages to someone named Ricky which I can only think was her ex-boyfriend before I came along a year ago.

You also have to keep in mind, that was the last piece of the puzzle that confirmed my suspicions. On earlier occasions she would step out of a room to make a call, became very private about the things she did when I wasn’t around, and to top it all off was acting very separated towards me. I think that if it looks like shit, smells like shit, then 10 times out of 10 it is shit. My only assumption was that she is cheating on me. Now here I am, the following day pouring my heart out to anyone that will listen. Everything I have in life is in her. My family is in another state, we’ve invested so much into each other, and basically outside of this I have nothing. Just in case your wondering if i’m making myself look like a saint, i’m gonna give you some quick details about myself. I’m not a drinker, or a smoker. I’m from what people tell me funny, caring, and at sometimes out going. I have never done anything to harm her and have treated her like a queen. I guess I am a saint after all.

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Posted by on December 27, 2011 in For Emotional

 

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A sign of emotional maturity

Emotional maturity refers to people in need regardless of personal circumstances are met, can consciously regulate emotions so moderate a state of mind. Do not need to be met as ecstasy, unmet needs such as anger is not humble. Emotional maturity is marked psychological health. Everyone should make to the community of their own on “feeling with restraint”, strive to mature as soon as their emotions. He Luoke (E. Hurlock) that the emotional maturity consists of four aspects: to stay healthy. They can manage their own health, long-term unremitting physical exercise, effectively prevent fatigue, lack of sleep, headaches, indigestion and other diseases caused by emotional instability. When there is disease, a disease-fighting optimistic psychology. To control the environment. Personal behavior must be constrained by the social environment, to overcome the want to do whatever its own way of thinking; personal interests do not violate the collective interests of individual behavior to comply with codes of conduct, can not be exported wounding, swearing talk, touch dancing, assault, petty theft and so on. Able to resolve the tension to harmless areas. Person’s emotional nature is bipolar, bipolar affective not only damage their own health, and strong negative emotions such as anger, temper, which may hurt others. To enhance the regulation of sentiment, resolve and prevent excessive feelings, repressed emotions into that mood with a social sense of responsibility. Insight into the understanding of society. Insight and understanding of social, human intelligence will enable the growing accumulation of social experience. Society is not self-centered, but to everyone as the center for the collective good center. Insight and understanding of society, will be more self-discipline, more tolerant, more integration, more emotionally mature, and collective fate. In sum, emotional maturity is required psychological maturity. It requires every adult about to or have young people leave home by their parents, entirely dependent on their parents way of life, and gradually into the community, relying on independent and self-cultivation, the ups and downs in the large classroom in the community beat themselves, exercise their own, to In the work, study, learn self-management of life, but also learn to manage others (such as the department’s leadership to let you do), organize a family and educate their children, from a single community of qualified consumers to become builders, producers.1cd4147b572dc3b40ad187c3

Edit this paragraph the nature of the philosophy of emotion

Psychology, the emotion is defined as: “people reflect the objective reality of a special form, is one of the objective things, whether the people’s needs arising from the attitude of the experience.” From this definition can learn: emotion is a subjective experience, subjective attitude or subjective reflection, subjective sense of scope, not part of the objective areas. Dialectical materialism that any subjective human consciousness is a reflection of objective reality, emotions are a special kind of subjective consciousness, must correspond to a particular objective, the key issue is whether to find this particular objective. Not difficult to find, “the objective things, whether the people who need” is actually a classic problem of value judgments, “in line with people’s needs” is a thing of value properties, is an objective reality, “attitude” and “experience” things are people’s understanding of the value of property or to reflect the way, so that psychology can be described as the definition of emotion: “Emotion is a human characteristic of things of value arising from the subjective reflection.” Corresponding to the objective existence of emotions is characteristic of things of value8759287a9b90f2ad2e73b3c2

 
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Posted by on October 7, 2011 in For Emotional

 

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For emotional cognition

cebd0017bfa001414a90a7c0Emotions are an integral part of this attitude, it’s inward feelings and attitudes, intention to have coherence, is the attitude of a more complex and physically stable physiological evaluation and experience. Sense of morality and values​​, including emotional aspects, manifested in love, happiness, hatred, disgust, beauty, and so on. “Dictionary of Psychology”, said: “Emotion is one of objective things meets their needs arising from the attitude to experience.” While an ordinary psychology courses also said: “The emotions and feelings are all human things, the attitude of objective experience, but the mood is more inclined to desire the basic needs of the individual’s attitude toward the experience, and emotional needs of the community desires more inclined to the attitude of experience. ”

1 feel moved. HW charm “Liu Fu”: “sticks and trees and Tan cloth, stems Sen tip to Fen Yang. People feeling the old things, the heart of melancholy to increase into account.” Southern Song Liang Fu “for the Songgong seeking bonus Liu former military form”: “Quinlan’s points, meaning deep emotion, is offering its is pregnant, cloth toward the listening. “8bc3a7017db34e43738da5c12

(2) people affected by external stimuli and psychological reactions, such as joy, anger, sadness, fear, love, hate and so on. Jin Luyun “Land Code book and the book”: “and read all the pro-Seoul analysis, emotional re-tie, lament it.” Tang Bai “Cassia Court” poem: “Life is a feeling, thought and event led thing.” Wei Wei “Oriental” section Chapter six: “But such feelings also admired the majority of heroes.”

 
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Posted by on October 6, 2011 in For Emotional

 

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