Love is an emotion so pure and sublime that it can make life worth living. All of us have experienced it at some point in our lives, many of the bright minds have attempted to capture it in words and yet there exists no rigid definition for romance or love. It is one of those things that need to be experienced to be understood. For some romance is about candle light dinners, long walks along the beach, looking into each other’s eyes, exchanging mushy gifts and beautiful flowers…For some it is about engaging conversations and sharing dreams and hopes…At the end …one thing that remains constant in all these ideas is togetherness…no matter what…Romance implies togetherness be it psychological, physical or both.
Well if you think you are creative enough to think of romantic ideas for dates, proposals or any relationship problems – good for you! But there are many people out in the worldhuo who could use some suggestions and tips to be think of more creative and romantic while in a relationship. Romance is not an ingredient of a relationship, it a continuous and undying process which has to go on sometimes with or sometimes without any special help or efforts. Relationships and romance do not happen at once and lead to ‘happily forever’ on their own. People who are in love need to experience the various stages of a romantic relationship and enjoy every single step, without ever doubting their abilities or their will to stay together.
If you are looking for ideas for a romantic date, the answer lies with you. Think of the things that you enjoy and the things that your date might enjoy. Break away from the clichéd romantic date ideas of candle light dinners and moonlight walks…Think of something original or at least give your original twist to the conventional romantic date ideas…For example plan a candle light dinner at home. A home-cooked meal followed by a great romantic movie on your home theater, as you sip wine and munch on some popcorn might be a fun and romantic idea for a date.
In addition to this you can also indulge in fun activities and adventure sports of course with your partner’s consent. Beautiful nature trails, or rafting in the white waters can be a great way to experience nature on your romantic date. In addition to this, you can also go out for an event that interests both of you – be it a musical concert or a basketball match. Indulge in activities that are in line with your interests but do not hesitate to experiment and explore other romantic ideas.
Imagine fighting with your partner about something. Just as you are exchanging heated words and calling names, your partner suddenly hugs you. Yes, the best way to end a fight is to give your partner a warm hug. In case that is not possible try and think of a really cute way to say you are sorry. Say it with roses, or may be even a small gift. Humor also happens to be one of the bet options to end the fight by making your partner laugh. Try this: While you are fighting, suddenly stop talking and once your partner starts speaking repeat everything that she/he says in a very funny accent. Your partner can pretend to be irritated at this for a while, but soon both of your will be laughing your heads off and the fight will be forgotten.
I would not say romance is not about the initial butterflies in the stomach and the anticipation of the first kiss, because it is. Romance is about the wonderful beginnings, the sparks, the fireworks, but it is also about the tranquility that follows, it is also about surviving through the arguments and fights…it is about being able to fight and hold hands once the argument is over…romance is never binding…it is a desire shared by two people to stay together and grow together…Romance is about discovering and exploring the world together, but more so about understanding and appreciating each other…always and of course forever!